Glossary of popular terms used in the swinging lifestyle:

Airtight

Sex where the female is penetrated anally, vaginally and orally at the same time

Anal

Sexual intercourse of the anus.

Bareback

Having sexual intercouse without a condom.

BBW

Big beautiful woman

BDSM

Bondage, discipline, sadomasochism

Bondage

When an individual is sexually aroused when being restrained. Normally also includes wearing of "fetish" outfits

Cross Dressing

Where a male or female dresses as the opposite sex.

Cock ring

A ring worn by a male around his penis to maintain a stonger erection. 

Creampie

When a male ejaculates inside the female (after bareback sex)

Cybersex

Virtual sex using internet chatrooms.

Dogging

Also known as "car park sex" where couples and singles meet in deserted public areas to have sex with each other and onlookers.

Double penetration (DP)

Normally meaning both vaginal and anal sex at the same time as a threesome. Can also mean double vaginal sex (two cocks in the vanina at once) or double anal sex (two cocks in the anus at the same time).

Exhibitionism

Where an individual or couple enjoy showing others themselves naked or in the act of sex

FFM

Threesome invlving two females and one male.

Fisting

A sex act which involves inserting the hand into the vagina or anus. 

Full Swap

Usually describes a swinging couple who have full sexual intercourse with others.

Gangbangs

A form of group sex involving more than three people at the same time. It normally also means more of one sex than the other (eg 1 female and 5 males).

Greedy Girl

A type of swingers event where males outnumber a single female in group sex.

MMF

Threesome involving two males and a female

Oral

A sex act where a male or female suck or lick the other's genitals, normally to orgasm.

Orgy

Another term for group sex.

Phone Sex

Sex over the telephone, where both parties describe sexual acts to each other.

Rimming

A form or oral sex where a male or female stimulates the anus of another using thier lips and.or tongue.

Snowballing

Also known as "cum swaping" where one person has semen in thier mouth and kisses or spits it into the mouth of another person.

Soft swap

Normally used to describe a swinger that will play with others, but only has actual intercourse with thier own partner.

Threesome

Sexual intercourse involveing three peolpe at the same time.

Vanilla

A term used to describe anything outside the swinging lifestyle - (eg "going to a vanilla party" - meaning a non swinging party)

Voyerism

The act of watching exhibitionists.

Watersports

A sex act invlving urination (pissing) on each other.

Webcam sex

A type of cybersex involving exopsing each other using webcams.

If anyone has any additions to this list, please let us know!