I am nearly forty, easy going male who likes to take charge, with a passion for NSA fun, and previous swinging experience.  I am intelligent and creative, and in the past have made S&M equipment.  I am equally comfortable with FMF, MFM, or group; and have no problems working in close proximity to pump a woman happy.  I appreciate the extra effort to dress to impress, and like to meet for a drink first, get comfortable, for a regular meets / parties.